Thanksgiving yesterday,watched twilight,breaking dawn part 2 today,was told my main contract Express Lane may be changing hands next month, and wife is coming home on the 8th. Soooooo,a lot has been happening and some things i will have to wait and see on. Life, it goes on and on, throwing us curve balls every time we least expect it, hehehe. Roll with it and come out looking for a better position, oh yeah.Now,where do i start, hmmmm.
Express Lane,that one kicked me in the ass. SHOCKER!!!!!!!. With all the changes going on there lately, i honestly felt as if there was something major coming on but, honestly could not put my finger on exactly what. When floor care went to once a month and i talked to Jim Lewis about it , he stated we were doing too much for the stores,which honestly did not sound right.After i offered to do work for less money and try to help out, with no response, i guess i should have noted a red flag, However, being the person I am,duhh, I never considered the options, and just did the best I could under the circumstances. A couple of weeks ago i did talk to the operations manager,Mark Shoffer, and informed him if things were going to continue in this venue, i would be out of business shortly,not just because of the money reduction but also my liability insurance coming up. I informed him that strips were going to start, and that the norm was to start and try to finish by Christmas. He told me to go ahead and do them, then i think it was the next week we were told about the company changing hands,freaked me out. Now nothing is definite, except for change, i feel bad for myself sure,but man all those employees, are nervous too. Mark says he is worried,but honestly i am sure he knows more then he is saying, politics, naturally. Some how i will make it,it may be the straw that breaks this camels back, but it wont be because i am a quitter. Awhile back, i had sent,given Jim Lewis, a letter informing him of how much i appreciated Express Lane, and their loyalty, the fact that i felt i had been adopted into being part of the Express Lane family. Well, i guess thats why i am an emotional fool, ah but they were good to me ,so what else can you say. I know it may sound unrealistic BUT, i do believe if they made out well on their deal it would not hurt for them to show some appreciation to some of the employees that have been around for 10 years or more. I know it may sound nuts it has been done before by other companies, they got bought out and in appreciation for the employees loyalty and support, they in turn rewarded them financially. Now,i know it seems like a pipe dream , but it has been done. I personally know for a fact that a lot of their employees are glad that they are holding the Christmas party early,they were worried about the bonuses ,which may not be earth shattering but hell it was important for the employee, and the fact the Lewis family is doing that, is very much appreciated by the employees. I dont know what else to say about this scenario, it is not in my hands, except to hope for the best. You know, Jim Lewis, told me if i had any business ideas he might have been willing to listen, and maybe help out, after all this evolved i did try to contact him ,to no avail, but i guess he has had a lot on his plate,maybe someday, hehehe. Oh well, there really is no use crying over spilt milk,and maybe, just maybe, i can turn this around, with the other company. I definitely have learned a lot in these last couple of years though, but life would not be the adventure it is, if, you were not learning new things,hehehehe.
Reed Lewis, my kind of guy, in all my other posts i talk about his brother, Jim Lewis, and the family, but Reed has always been the kind of guy next door, earthy, been there and back,no drama, listen and comment,without judging, kind,and a heart he tries to hide,wisdom that comes from having to deal with suffering and a smile,well he just makes you not want to quit. I want to call him a leader of men, but actually i think he is more an inspiration to people. Where some assume the leadership role through title,etc., etc., he inspires you,by the person he is. This is how true leadership works,by example,through effort, and overcoming lifes hardships, asking for no recognition ,and as due course, receiving an acknowledgement from all that he is a leader,who takes care of his own, and others where possible. He has a heart,he has felt the pain of others and ,in their time of need,makes time for them. Man,i am gonna miss you,our talks,where i ramble on,the way you made me feel as if what i said was worth listening to. Times, when i would say you really dont want to know, your acknowledgement of the situation ,not by telling me to tell you,just an acceptance that it could be,and instead of bull,you would respect that and let it be.here i am getting all emotional, so i will end this, but pray someday you have the opportunity to read it,love you blood.
Thanksgiving, ah, trippy, trippy. One for the books. i hope i either get that Dragon program or learn to type faster soon,this takes forever, hehehe. Messed around the house a little,then Scotty and I, went to Christenes about 3:30. Oh ,forgot the cable got shut off the night before so, as much as i hated asking,I did ask Christene if she would pay the bill till Friday,mainly cause it was driving Scotty nuts,even if he said otherwise and so Donna could get her email. So Christene paid it for me, and we planned to go for turkey there, talk about a wild ride. We pull up, get out, and Scotty is walking up,when lo and behold,i see someone i have an issue with, to put it nicely. Thats for another post on another day. I stand there, so hot i swear, the grass is scorching under my shoes, anger so black, i feared of losing control, my body starts vibrating, and when i sense how bad it is getting, i stop.Dead, in my tracks,tearing my eyes away, watching the children playing catch , in the front yard.Of all things this i least expected, i would have thought that ,out of respect someone would have told me he was going to be there, as they know how i feel. Then i would have simply taken Scotty, picked him up and, and hopefully some leftovers, and left, n.p..Thank god, for the children, for there would have been hell on earth without them. Only 2 people have seen me mad in 20 years,and that instance came to a quick end because I misunderstood something, but just that short burst flipped them out.It is really funny to me, how people can think that because some one keeps control over their anger that it is always possible,or how simply because they have never seen a person get violent, it is not possible.It is kind of like a person who has a license to carry a concealed weapon, he may look mousy, wear glasses and carry himself in a subservient way,but watch what happens when you mess with him. Living such a quiet, peace full life here, i have tried to keep my past away, but everyone has that point, you dont want to go. There will be a day of reckoning, but it will be on my terms, and it will be hell for some one, but not in front of the kids.You know it is kinda funny talking about this, because one day Jim Lewis, unwittingly, almost got me pissed off enough, i had told him about a problem,something about a store,and he came off with the comment,that i think about the little things,while he deals with the things way up here.It was the only time he ever talked down to me,and therefore ,i checked myself,thinking he was having a bad day.I laugh sometimes when people,even people i used to work with, try to full around with me physically, for they have no idea what the hell is possible. I remember one time in Southie, i was ready ,and capable of taking on an entire bar,which scared the hell out of my brother and current girlfriend, who kept trying to get me to leave, which i eventually did, hehehehehe, and at least people knew what would happen if you push me too far, here, they have no idea, which gives me a kinda pride in myself. I was taught a long time ago,kill someone, and their suffering is over, it is far better to keep them suffering, physically or psychologically, if you wish for them to be taught a lesson.OK,thats enough on that, i made it through the dinner, i kept to myself, talked to Will about his mother passing, tried to get Linda to at least say hi, with no luck, guess she really has no use for me which hurts,and Sotty kept an eye watching me to make sure i did not lose it. He did say, when we got home he would have had my back if there had been an incident, which made me feel good. Afterwards, we went to my mothers house,gave myself a pat on the back for that, and actually had a good time.I had worried she would be alone,but oh no,living room full,hehehehe.That made me happy, she loves being the center of attention, and actually since she always was before i am glad to see she still has her admirers today. So irregardless of the little things it was a pretty good day, and i even went to sleep earlier then usual,hehehehe. I really want to keep going but its 12 pm now so will pick up tomorrow,really............until then night all, may the force be with you and love in your life,me.
WOULD YOU BELIEVE PART 2,HEHEHEHEHE. Quite simply i can not fall asleep!!!!! It is 3:30 am and here i am back again,just got done watching The Three Musketeers,eating roast beef,and cant sleep,i wonder why. Ahhhh,life, it is good sometimes!!!!!! Far better to be here then other places i could be,optimist, pessimist, but always hopeful. so lets talk about Twilight ,Breaking Dawn, Part 2. First coffee,be right back...OK,half milk,half coffee,so lets go on a philosophical journey, or a trip through my mind,and its perceptions,SCARY HUH.. Vampires,werewolves,humans,and unsurprisingly a child that encompasses all three worlds.Do we all not do the same thing on a daily basis? Dont we deal with different cultures, races, religions,ways of life on a daily journey through humanity.Adaptation, the chameleon,actors on a stage ,all different, unique,each with a hidden secret from others,all in this bustle of humanity,an individual who must adapt,to am ever changing environment of beliefs and cultures,in a shrinking world,created by mass transit and the lightning quick reflexes of an electronic age. One where secrets are harder to hide, where truth is thrown at us ,sometimes anonymously, but even so stronger with out a signature for approval.Here is the strength of mankind,for while we are each an island,we are also unique in being above all a community of adaptability.We retain our self while becoming even more as we merge with one another. Perfect, no, but out of each process of learning to adapt with others , stronger tbrough the lessons we endure,more humane through the suffering we see exists,and somewhere in there more tolerant,more understanding of how important our own individuality is for us to succeed as we merge.I am unique,ther is none like me,similar,maybe even almost identical,{i feel for you too,he,he,he},but no one else thinks or is constructed of the memories and actions that have created me. I am the vampires child. My children, will be even more, for lines disintegrate,become blurry,more will be known, less hidden,stronger they will be, for with less hidden the core must become stronger, to retain its sense of self,or get swept away.I AM ENJOYING THE HELL OUT OF THIS,i wonder what i will think of it, if and when i read it again. When i was younger, I remember taking so much , pride , trying to put this correctly,at any rate, my ability to be a chameleon ,in any group, the ability to manipulate, and control, seemed like playing.Now, i find that i recieve more pleasure or as much in watching the world, at times trying to analyze various situations, that i really have no real back ground in with the exception of having lived a diversified life. I am right sometimes,and naturally i am wrong also.The truth to me is evident,people are generally wanting to be a better person, if they could afford itthey would rather be of the more positive side.Leaders ,those that set the boundaries,here we must exercise caution.Sci fi,mystical creatures,those who can share with but a thought their truths,maybe on the day humanity can share itself,open its mind,when we have no fear of our own individuality,and an even greater love for all,we will not need leaders,or fear vampires,werewolves or ourselves,and in that unity we will be the best we can be.WOW,SAID EITHER TOO MUCH,OR CONFUSED MYSELF,BUT I THINK I LIKE IT!!!!!!!!!!SO WILL READ TOMORROW,gonna try to got to sleep now good night,whoever,whatever you are and welcome into my world,it is full of life,its pain,and especially love ,later,me
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